my best friend is engaged...! O_O what happened to high school? she can't get married yet... =(

tha'ts probably the most exciting news i've heard yet. yesterday i went down to san diego for the first time in ages. it was a halloween costume/ farewell party. the house was huge and at least 300 people rolled through that place last nite. the house got so trashed. i hate it when people don't party responsibly and are disrespectful and act just plain stupid. there were so many random people that came through, friends of friends of friends... that's probably what did it. but i must say, it was so nice to have the old SD crew back together again, minus a few folks who couldn't make it out. but for the most part, we were there together. i miss those guys. =/ and now with davy moving out to new york, living with tei out there, and a bunch of folks up north in the bay area, and people all over LA.. there's only very few of us left in SD. such is life.... it's hard to handle. we can't just get together whenever we want. and those infamous road trips... i wonder if we'll have one of those again.

so depressing!

on a random note, i don't think i'll ever be a cowgirl again. in my search for a cost-efficient and little maintenance costume, i just bought a cowboy hat and a bandana, then went to home depot to buy rope to hang off the side of my jeans. it actually put together pretty well! but the reason why i wouldn't do it again is because these random guys dressed as cowboys come up to you with interesting comments. i'ma be something that doesn't have an obvious counterpart.

another SD trip is just around the corner. going down to do workshops for APSA's high school conference, and benji is going to be the keynote speaker! aww~ so nice to know that we are not forgotten, despite our age. ok so maybe i'm not as old, but it's been at least 5 years since benji's graduated from sd. man, all these reminders of how old we're getting and how time is flying by...